With two stones, a custom Toi et Moi ring represents your story — two lives coming together in one timeless piece, handcrafted in our Toronto atelier.
Book an AppointmentA Toi et Moi ring, crafted for you: made to celebrate your one-of-a-kind connection. Choose any combination of gemstones, metals, and personal touches to create a ring that speaks the language only the two of you share.
“I commissioned a custom gold ring from Sergio and he did a marvelous job. He made sure the design was exactly what I was looking for and really took his time to consider every tiny detail. A true professional and a lovely person. Highly recommended.”
“Sergio was very patient and kind. He helped me design a one-of-a-kind bracelet for my partner to signify an infinite loop. It took many design iterations to settle on something I liked, and Sergio was very patient and helpful throughout. The final piece was beautiful, and I absolutely loved it. Thank you to Sergio for allowing me to gift something so personal to my loved one.”
“Thank you Eric for the great words and your trust. Looking forward to design many pieces for you. Congrats ! Sergio”
“Sergio was amazing to work with. My fiancée first discovered them at a bridal show when she tried on a ring she instantly loved. When I went in later, they already had all her info saved, which made the process so easy. From start to finish, they were professional, attentive, and made sure every detail was perfect. The quality and sparkle of the ring and diamonds are incredible, we couldn’t be happier. Highly recommend!”
“I have worked with a lot of jewellers in the GTA, and I can confidently say Sergio is by far the best. Very professional service with a wide variety of quality products. Highly recommend!”
“It was a pleasure meeting you today Gloria and helping you. Thank you for the 5 stars! Sergio”
“Sergio was an excellent consultant, guiding my fiancée through the many ring options with care and expertise. He was recommended to me by a coworker who cited his numerous 5-star reviews, and now I completely see why. I really appreciated how intentional he was about not influencing her decision, instead asking thoughtful questions that helped her uncover what she truly wanted. He also worked closely with me to find the best version of her design while maximizing my budget, which made a big difference. And somehow the ring was even better than we expected! Six stars ⭐️”
“Sergio was very kind and patience. He listened to our requests to make sure the ring was perfect. And the rings he made are amazing and fit perfectly. 10/10 recommend!”
“Where do I even begin? Sergio is not only an exceptional jeweller but also a genuinely kind and thoughtful person. From our very first phone call to the moment we received our ring, he was warm, attentive, and easy to talk to. Throughout the entire process, he kept me well-informed and made everything feel seamless. His craftsmanship is outstanding, with an incredible eye for detail. I wouldn’t hesitate to return to Sergio for future pieces—he’s truly one of a kind!”
“Sergio is one of the most sensitive people I've met since I moved to Toronto. It was a pleasure to bring my Miraculous Medal to get plated, a new life to such an important and sentimental piece I own. I highly recommend Orosergio. Thank you!”
“We had a fantastic experience working with Sergio. He came highly recommended by some of our friends who have worked with him over the years. In our case, he went above and beyond our expectations with regards to the level of service we received and of course the quality product and design (in our case, rings) that he delivered. He is a consummate professional and we highly recommend Orosergio Jewelery!”
“I had a complicated ring sizing situation, but Sergio was beyond wonderful! He was incredibly patient and thoughtful throughout all of our interactions. He clearly takes significant pride in his work as he won’t do a job unless it’s perfect. He’s incredibly knowledgeable. I couldn’t be more impressed with my experience and the quality of his work! Thank you, thank you, thank you! I couldn’t recommend him enough!”
“I commissioned a custom gold ring from Sergio and he did a marvelous job. He made sure the design was exactly what I was looking for and really took his time to consider every tiny detail. A true professional and a lovely person. Highly recommended.”
“Sergio was very patient and kind. He helped me design a one-of-a-kind bracelet for my partner to signify an infinite loop. It took many design iterations to settle on something I liked, and Sergio was very patient and helpful throughout. The final piece was beautiful, and I absolutely loved it. Thank you to Sergio for allowing me to gift something so personal to my loved one.”
“Thank you Eric for the great words and your trust. Looking forward to design many pieces for you. Congrats ! Sergio”
“Sergio was amazing to work with. My fiancée first discovered them at a bridal show when she tried on a ring she instantly loved. When I went in later, they already had all her info saved, which made the process so easy. From start to finish, they were professional, attentive, and made sure every detail was perfect. The quality and sparkle of the ring and diamonds are incredible, we couldn’t be happier. Highly recommend!”
“I have worked with a lot of jewellers in the GTA, and I can confidently say Sergio is by far the best. Very professional service with a wide variety of quality products. Highly recommend!”
“It was a pleasure meeting you today Gloria and helping you. Thank you for the 5 stars! Sergio”
“Sergio was an excellent consultant, guiding my fiancée through the many ring options with care and expertise. He was recommended to me by a coworker who cited his numerous 5-star reviews, and now I completely see why. I really appreciated how intentional he was about not influencing her decision, instead asking thoughtful questions that helped her uncover what she truly wanted. He also worked closely with me to find the best version of her design while maximizing my budget, which made a big difference. And somehow the ring was even better than we expected! Six stars ⭐️”
“Sergio was very kind and patience. He listened to our requests to make sure the ring was perfect. And the rings he made are amazing and fit perfectly. 10/10 recommend!”
“Where do I even begin? Sergio is not only an exceptional jeweller but also a genuinely kind and thoughtful person. From our very first phone call to the moment we received our ring, he was warm, attentive, and easy to talk to. Throughout the entire process, he kept me well-informed and made everything feel seamless. His craftsmanship is outstanding, with an incredible eye for detail. I wouldn’t hesitate to return to Sergio for future pieces—he’s truly one of a kind!”
“Sergio is one of the most sensitive people I've met since I moved to Toronto. It was a pleasure to bring my Miraculous Medal to get plated, a new life to such an important and sentimental piece I own. I highly recommend Orosergio. Thank you!”
“We had a fantastic experience working with Sergio. He came highly recommended by some of our friends who have worked with him over the years. In our case, he went above and beyond our expectations with regards to the level of service we received and of course the quality product and design (in our case, rings) that he delivered. He is a consummate professional and we highly recommend Orosergio Jewelery!”
“I had a complicated ring sizing situation, but Sergio was beyond wonderful! He was incredibly patient and thoughtful throughout all of our interactions. He clearly takes significant pride in his work as he won’t do a job unless it’s perfect. He’s incredibly knowledgeable. I couldn’t be more impressed with my experience and the quality of his work! Thank you, thank you, thank you! I couldn’t recommend him enough!”
Toi et moi — French for “you and me” — describes a ring that holds two gemstones side by side, each representing one partner in a relationship. Rather than a single centre stone, the design celebrates the idea that two distinct lives can sit together in perfect balance, neither overshadowing the other. It is one of the most romantic engagement ring styles in the history of fine jewellery, and it carries a symbolism that no other setting can quite replicate.
In recent years, toi et moi rings have experienced a major revival among modern couples who want an engagement ring that feels deeply personal and unconventional. But this is not a passing trend at OROSERGIO. Sergio has been designing and handcrafting toi et moi rings in Toronto for 30 years — long before the style reappeared on red carpets and Instagram feeds. His expertise is rooted in decades of working with the form, understanding how two stones interact with each other, how their proportions and angles affect the overall harmony of the ring, and how to engineer a setting that is as secure as it is beautiful.
The magic of a toi et moi ring lives in the conversation between its two stones. Here are the pairings Sergio recommends most — though your imagination is the only limit.
The purest expression of the toi et moi concept. Pairing two diamonds — especially in contrasting shapes like oval and pear — creates a design that is at once classic and contemporary, with light dancing between both stones in perfect harmony.
The combination Napoleon chose for Josephine, and still one of the most striking pairings available. Blue sapphire symbolises loyalty and wisdom alongside the diamond's eternal brilliance — a declaration that your bond is both passionate and enduring.
Bold, vintage-inspired, and utterly captivating. The deep green of an emerald against a white diamond evokes renewal, growth, and enduring love — a pairing favoured by those who appreciate old-world romance with a modern sensibility.
Perhaps the most passionate of all pairings. Ruby has been called the stone of kings, representing love, courage, and vitality. Set alongside a diamond, it creates a ring that is dramatic, confident, and unmistakably romantic.
Soft, luminous, and deeply romantic. A pearl paired with a diamond offers a quieter elegance — ideal for those drawn to understated beauty or who wish to incorporate an heirloom pearl into a modern setting.
For couples who want something truly unique, pairing two coloured gemstones — sapphire and emerald, ruby and morganite, or any combination you dream of — creates a ring unlike anything else, a reflection of two distinct personalities united.
Each partner's birthstone set side by side transforms the toi et moi ring into a deeply personal symbol. Whether it is garnet and aquamarine or peridot and tanzanite, birthstone pairings tell your story in a language only the two of you fully understand.
The interplay of stone shapes defines the character of every toi et moi ring. Sergio will guide you toward the combination that best suits your vision.
The most popular pairing — the flowing curves of the oval complement the tapered point of the pear, creating an elegant, organic silhouette.
Classic meets modern. The round brilliant anchors the design with familiarity, while the pear introduces movement and a contemporary edge.
A study in geometric contrast. The clean, architectural lines of an emerald cut played against the soft curves of an oval create visual tension that is utterly compelling.
Soft and balanced, with the cushion's rounded corners echoing the round brilliant while maintaining its own distinct character — a harmonious, romantic pairing.
Start with a consultation to share your vision or get inspired.
Select your stones, setting, and style. See a 3D rendering before it’s made.
Our master jewellers handcraft your ring using ethically sourced stones and precious metals.
Your ring is ready — perfectly presented and made to capture your connection.
In the heart of downtown Toronto, Sergio's Studio is where your dream Toi et Moi ring becomes a reality. Everything done in-house, designed and crafted with decades of expertise.
Book an AppointmentThe story of the toi et moi ring begins in 1796, when a young Napoleon Bonaparte presented Josephine de Beauharnais with a ring set with a pear-shaped diamond and a pear-shaped sapphire, their points turned toward each other. That ring — now considered the origin of the toi et moi style — was a declaration of devotion from one of history’s most famous lovers, and it set the tone for centuries of romantic symbolism.
Throughout the Victorian and Edwardian eras, toi et moi rings flourished among European aristocracy. Jewellers of the period paired coloured gemstones with old mine cut diamonds, often incorporating intricate metalwork and milgrain borders that gave each ring the character of a miniature work of art. The style became a favourite of those who valued sentiment over convention.
In the twentieth century, the toi et moi tradition continued among notable figures. Jackie Kennedy received her engagement ring from John F. Kennedy — a striking design featuring a 2.88-carat emerald and a 2.84-carat diamond, set side by side and framed with baguettes. It remains one of the most iconic engagement rings in American history.
The 2020s brought a powerful revival. Celebrity engagements — Megan Fox’s thorn-wrapped toi et moi, Emily Ratajkowski’s princess-cut and pear-shaped pairing, Ariana Grande’s pearl and diamond ring — put the style back in the cultural spotlight. But for Sergio, these headlines were a welcome return to a form he had already been perfecting for years in his Toronto atelier. Where the trend is new for many jewellers, his understanding of the toi et moi is built on 30 years of hands-on mastery.
Absolutely. At OROSERGIO, every toi et moi ring begins with the stones you love. You can select any combination of diamonds, sapphires, emeralds, rubies, morganite, or other precious gemstones. Many couples choose to pair a classic diamond with a coloured stone that holds personal meaning — a birthstone, a family heirloom gem, or a stone that represents a shared memory. Sergio sources each stone individually, prioritising exceptional colour, brilliance, and ethical provenance, so your pairing is as meaningful as it is beautiful.
We offer every precious metal suited to fine jewellery: platinum, 18k yellow gold, 18k white gold, 18k rose gold, and mixed-metal combinations. The metal you choose influences the overall character of the ring — platinum offers a cool, enduring lustre that complements white diamonds beautifully, while yellow gold adds warmth and pairs strikingly with coloured gemstones. Many clients opt for a two-tone design, which echoes the "two-in-one" spirit of the toi et moi style itself. Sergio will advise on which metal best enhances your chosen stones.
This is one of the most rewarding aspects of a custom toi et moi ring. We regularly incorporate heirloom diamonds or gemstones passed down through generations — resetting a grandmother's stone alongside a newly sourced gem creates a powerful bridge between past and future. Beyond stones, we can add hidden engravings on the inner band, milgrain detailing inspired by a vintage piece, or design motifs that carry personal significance. Sergio treats each sentimental element with the care it deserves, ensuring it is seamlessly integrated into a modern, wearable design.
From the moment your design is finalised to the day you hold your finished ring, the process typically takes two to three weeks. This timeline includes precision CAD modelling, hand-setting each stone, and meticulous finishing. More complex designs — such as those involving rare gemstone sourcing, intricate pavé work, or custom engraving — may require an additional week. We always recommend beginning the process at least four to six weeks before your intended proposal or occasion to allow time for revisions and to ensure every detail is perfect.
Of course. Before any metalwork begins, you will receive detailed sketches or a photorealistic 3D CAD rendering of your ring. This allows you to see exactly how the two stones sit together, how the band flows, and how the proportions work on your hand. You can request adjustments at this stage — changing the angle of a stone, adjusting prong placement, or modifying band width — at no additional cost. We do not move to production until you are completely satisfied with the design, because a ring this meaningful should be exactly right.
Custom toi et moi rings at OROSERGIO typically range from $5,000 to $10,000, with the final price depending on the gemstones selected, the complexity of the setting, and the metal choice. A diamond-and-sapphire pairing in platinum will sit at a different point than a morganite-and-diamond combination in rose gold, for example. During your consultation, Sergio provides transparent pricing with no hidden fees, so you know exactly what to expect. We also offer flexible payment options to make the process as comfortable as possible.
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Two stones, one ring, your story. Book a consultation to choose your pairing — diamond and sapphire, emerald and pearl, or any combination that speaks to you. We design every toi et moi ring from scratch in our Toronto studio.
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